Wednesday, March 26, 2014

In anticipation of leaving my children for a week...



Separation

Anxiety sneaks in on little rat wings, scuttles and flurries of the what if’s as I approach
seven whole days without them.  I imagine the earth quaking, riding a giant wave across

housing developments, stucco and concrete, mini-malls where packages of Japanese udon and
Vietnamese fish paste get tossed like detritus, fly into hungry mouths.  We all mix together,

the vatos on the corner, the women tending shop, the man in the Mercedes, rolling and cresting over
that wide and shiny city, that gritty and deranged barrio, those seasons that meld and mesh,

the sameness that is sunshine sprinkled with centuries of drought and  doughnut shops.  Here, we are safe.  The snow is bad enough, the avalanche tears into our neighborhood and miracles abound.

That’s what I’m talking about.  The pain of real seasons.  The challenge of the day to day makes us
exempt from the wanderlust of the earth at her core, her need to finally release because  where I come

from, where I’m going, no one is spared.  Plates are pushing, pushing, waiting, waiting, lean in,
hold on and it starts with windows, windows rattle, find a doorway, find a table, cover your neck, no

your head, no your neck, always have a plan.  Keep bottles of water in the trunk, keep an extra blanket in the backseat.  Call your children often.   Think of them with the snow and her soft thaw 

and coats, downy and warm.  The way the pull their hats over their ears, their mismatched socks.  The deer watch wide eyed in the yard as they pull away on their bikes, shout, “Look at me!”

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