here are some things a big girl does. a big girl hangs out in her crib and actually plays with her toys. when she's feeling like she needs an extra little kick, she puts them in her mouth.
a big girl goes out to eat in restauraunts and actually makes conversation with her girlfriends. a big girl listens to daddy reading stories and looks at each and every page as he goes. a big girl sits up in the middle of mommy and daddy's bed and is ever so proud. a big girl plays on her playmat independently. and best of all, a big girl soothes herself back to sleep in her crib when finally given the chance.
and a big mama, lets her cry, even for just a few minutes, and gives her the chance to take care of herself.
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what a big girl indeed - she already is so different than when you were visiting in LA. you guys are doing such a fantastic job!
let me know if you need any support in the sleep department. i know it's incredibly difficult to listen to your little bubs cry at all, but i really believe that teaching them how to self-soothe is *so* important.
love you guys!
Gill- all of that was so beautiful thanks for sharing and being so honest as we witness you go though such a hard step. I can feel all the opposing forces by the way you share this so well. You are carving the path for me! Thanks!
thanks for the support, ladies. i feel like last night was a big breakthrough. perhaps it's because after a good nights sleep, she's been in a much better mood today and has had two excellent naps. i guess it all works together! i just have to remember how tough she is!
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